Take, for example, part of this email I received last night from the Family Research Council:
So when the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints (LDS) announced today that it wants to strike a balance between sexual orientation and religious liberty, those of us closest to the issue understand how impossible that is. "Gays win; Christians lose." Those were the words of the White House's own Chai Feldblum. An open lesbian, Feldblum has been candid about the LGBT agenda and its impact on faith. When homosexuality clashes with religious liberty, she was clear: "I'm having a hard time coming up with any case in which religious liberty should win."
The claim that Feldblum, of the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission uttered the words "gays wins, Christians lose" has been repeated by many religious right and conservative groups.
And - surprise, surprise - it's simply not true. The meme was refuted in 2009 by Media Matters. Unfortunately, however, anti-gay groups kept repeating the story.
In 2012, this blog broke the story as to how this meme was brought to life.